Comments on: Too Many Questions - Not Enough Answers

By: Kin

Kin — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 15:52:10 +0000

Glad you’re feeling better! (Yes, I’m late).

More hugs!

By: Gemisht

Gemisht — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 12:37:17 +0000

Lightening: Thanks so much for the hugs - I needed them

Bettina - thanks for the candle. You gave me goosebumps - but good ones

Anonymum - I knew you would

Widdle Shamrock - A burned out T shirt - no-one told me I could get one of them LOL. Its a hard road somedays isn’t it.

Suze - thanks for the comment and hope things are looking up for you too

Anonymum - much better thanks. I shed some tears, mainly out of frustration and then did something about it

Lisa - thanks for visiting and your comment. Yeah, feeling much better

Naomi - Thanks, I don’t think that the light thing is ever easy. Especially when you can’t see it

Sueblimely - WOW, you took the words out of my mouth. It never is easy and yeah we are lucky to have ones that we love that much, and Tiger was reminded by someone else the other day that he is lucky to have someone who loves him that much and cares.

Jayne - it is so hard to let them make mistakes - well some of them anyway. Sometimes its easy to let them fall and be there to dust them off. Other times it is much harder, when it seems so much more permanent for them. That’s when I struggle.

By: Jayne

Jayne — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 07:40:12 +0000

The light at the end of the tunnel is there, it’s just playing hide and seek at the moment.
((hugs)) take a step back and let others make a few little mistakes and then offer to help them out; sometimes they have to learn to listen and take guidance after having a few “life experiences” to tuck under their own belts.
Sadly we can’t always lend them our own.

By: Sueblimely

Sueblimely — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 02:57:00 +0000

I have learned not to look for the end of the tunnel but just at the here and now, taking life step by step - trying to look at the big picture of today, yesterday, tomorrow was too much and full of ifs buts, shoulds, what ifs and whys. We often have to let those we love make their own mistakes and just be there for them afterwards. It is not easy to do though is it? I suppose one way to look at it is that we are lucky to have people that we love so much that it can hurt.

By: Naomi

Naomi — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:49:14 +0000

*huggggggg*

Yup, been somewhere similar a few times. I did find that a couple of books gave me some insight into the practical problems… I don’t think the ‘where the hell is the light at the end of the tunnel?’ problem can be helped by anything so simple :-/

By: Lisa B

Lisa B — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 06:21:10 +0000

Hugs, Honey. I totally understand things.

I hope things are a little better now for you!

By: anonymum

anonymum — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 07:49:38 +0000

You feeling better hon?

By: Suze

Suze — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 04:20:17 +0000

I could have written that very same post *sigh*

We must be going through something similar

By: Widdle Shamrock

Widdle Shamrock — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 21:02:24 +0000

Yep, Been there, got the burned out t~shirt.

((Hugs))

By: anonymum

anonymum — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:30:02 +0000

Oh I’m hearing you girl…I’m hearing you!